Thursday, July 15, 2021

Book Review #16 Child / Currency by Ketan Bhagat

 

Child/Currency

 By Ketan Bhagat

About the book

“Five years old is not big, Papa.”
“Really… then what is big?”
“Eighteen years.”
“Eighteen… why eighteen?”
“Because then mama can’t stop me from meeting you.”

Kanha’s words haunt Shreyas Kapoor. Shreyas hasn’t met his son in months because his estranged wife Prakriti treats Kanha like currency to be exchanged rather than as a child to be cared for.

Shreyas is alone, broke, and helpless. The law, society, and her family (maybe even his) all unjustly favor Prakriti. Destiny plummets Shreyas into a legal battle he’s bound to lose.

Enter faith—a higher power that follows no laws and has no bias. Shreyas takes refuge in his practice of the Holy Geeta and the words of Sathya Sai Baba, “Why fear when I am here?”

Will Shreyas have to wait until Kanha is eighteen to meet him again? Or will God have mercy on His devotee and deliver a miracle?

My take

This is the story of Shreyas Kapoor, a sales manager and a struggling author, overshadowed by the success of his best-selling author elder brother Preyas Kapoor. All is not well between the two brothers, but their mother tries to maintain a balance between the two of them. Shreyas’s wife Prakriti expects more out of Shreya’s writing career, probably constantly comparing him with his over-successful brother.

Cracks develop in their marriage, arguments turn into fights, and one fine day, Shreyas leaves his house, not imagining what life has in store for him.

The story shuttles between the past and the present. One part of the past includes incidents from Shreyas’s childhood, how the relationship he once shared with his father, and the toxic relationship between his parents, have shaped his views and beliefs. The other part describes his relationship with Prakriti, how he supported and funded her dream of becoming a Yoga guru, splurging on her and her dreams.

The present dissects each and every aspect of marriage, of the relationship between a man and a woman, the expectations and disappointments, the egos and clashes, the love that was once there, that slowly seeps away with words and actions.

But at the very centre of the story is the relationship between Shreyas and his son, Kanha. Shreyas dotes on his son, and would go to any lengths to be with him. But just as the title suggests, the child is made into a sort of currency by the wife, and the battle becomes ugly. Shreyas is not permitted to meet his own son, and that is something he can never live with.

Step by step, Shreyas tries everything he can do to sort out the situation, and get an allowance to meet his son. He tries talking peacefully to Prakriti, he gets friends and family to speak to her, and finally it becomes an ugly court case with lawyers involved.

Through this journey, Shreyas inclines towards spirituality and when life starts becoming intolerable, he begins seeking advice from his spiritual guru, who doesn’t give him any false hopes but teaches him how to face the adversities in life with the same attitude as one faces the good things.

This is one of its kind of book that focuses on parental alienation, and how a child becomes a scapegoat in the brutal ego clashes when a marriage breaks. It also highlights how sometimes, the laws which favour women for obvious reasons, are exploited by women themselves. It narrates the emotional turmoil a father goes through when he is denied the basic right of seeing his son by his estranged wife.

The protagonist Shreyas is a good human being, a dutiful son, a thoughtful friend and a doting father. However, somewhere in the narration of him as a husband, I felt he was a bit misogynist, overly conservative and judgemental right from the beginning, and that could be one aspect that brought the couple to separation. We never get to know Prakriti’s side of the story, so blaming her entirely for whatever went wrong between the two seems unfair.

The way Prakriti takes advantage of being a woman and keeps the father out of her son’s life, not realizing what it would do to the child’s psychology, seems brutal, and if such things are happening in our country, the law needs to be scrutinized so that it is not unfair to men suffering from such kind of mental abuse.

Parental alienation has been captured beautifully and makes the reader think and analyse the situation.

The downside of the story is its length, slow pace and the number of unnecessary characters. The story could have been made more concise, reducing unnecessary details of trivial incidents that don’t add much meaning to the overall story, and by reducing the number of characters that serve no purpose other than adding more prose.

The greatest upside of the book, which I found really intriguing and captivating, was the way snippets from the holy Bhagvad Gita are discussed and described. It shows the author's deep knowledge on the subject, and takes a reader like me, who still has to learn a lot about spirituality, on a spiritual journey of her own.

So overall, even though slow-paced, a nice book that gives not just one but many strong moral lessons, I rate it 4.5.

 


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